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		<title>Update on Every Ho I Know Says So!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 17:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone, It&#8217;s been 5 months since Beef Jerky and I released the video Every Ho I Know on YouTube at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTdBXLCo1Qk. We have had so much positive feedback on the YouTube thread, through conversation and emails&#8230; it&#8217;s been really amazing! The video is an important and FREE resource for many people. Every Ho has been [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been 5 months since Beef Jerky and I released the video Every Ho I Know on YouTube at <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTdBXLCo1Qk" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTdBXLCo1Qk&amp;referer=');">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTdBXLCo1Qk</a>. We have had so much positive feedback on the YouTube thread, through conversation and emails&#8230; it&#8217;s been really amazing! The video is an important and FREE resource for many people.</p>
<p>Every Ho has been screened at sex worker gatherings, community events, university student events and also in university classrooms, anti-violence against women conferences, and will likely be screened at upcoming festivals in 2011 like Trigger Fest in Toronto, RheD symposium in Melbourne, San Francisco Art and Film Fest, Sex Worker Open University in London, Entzaubert Queer DIY Fest in Berlin, Ladyfest in Bellingham, at the Allied Media Conference in Detroit. People are listening to sex workers talk about how they&#8217;d like to be respected and heard! Yay!</p>
<p><strong>Let me thank the participating sex workers again for opening their hearts and putting themselves at risk by being so out about their work, their challenges, and their lives.</strong></p>
<p><strong>This is an update on what&#8217;s next for this project.</strong> Right now, Beef Jerky and I are:</p>
<p>*providing closed-captioning for the video in English, German, Spanish and French so that it is more widely accessible and available to sex workers around the world. If you have contacts for doing additional languages, let us know!</p>
<p><strong>*building a website where sex workers can upload additional videos</strong> from anywhere in the world. If your advice didn&#8217;t make the first cut of the video, or we had to edit you down, or we didn&#8217;t have time to interview you, we are hoping to upload more and bigger clips to this site. <strong>We hope to have this site up by the end of May 2011!</strong> Then we hope you will encourage all your sex worker friends to submit video! (And anonymity will be possible!)</p>
<p>-funding ourselves! We are collecting screening fees where ever possible and <strong>selling DVD copies of the film to funded student groups and university libraries and professors, as well as clinic/social service providers. If you are connected to any group like this, please put me in touch with them.</strong> NO VIDEO LIKE THIS exists. Wouldn&#8217;t it be amazing if people could find it in their university library, community centre, or trans or women or queer group resource library? We will continue to leave it on YouTube so it is FREE but we also want to collect funds where we can.</p>
<p>If we can collect sufficient funds, the goal is to share out proceeds. Right now, our major unavoidable costs are DVD printing and mailing and web hosting. We hope to pay the DVD cover designer and the webworker, and then hopefully pay contributors. (All of whom are sex workers who volunteered their time.) We will see what happens, fingers crossed.</p>
<p>In the meantime, if you want to share thoughts, ideas, or anything at all on this project, please be in touch.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Whorelicious hugs,</p>
<p>xxx<br />
Lusty</p>
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		<title>zine on being a good ally to sex workers</title>
		<link>http://smartassed.com/2011/04/zine-on-being-a-good-ally-to-sex-workers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 17:26:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last year my friend Sunny made this awesome zine called Ho Lover that I give out whenever I can. I hope it is useful to you. He has recently updated the resources section so I thought I would make it available here. (With his permission, of course!) HO LOVER zine layout I hope it is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last year my friend Sunny made this awesome zine called Ho Lover that I give out whenever I can. I hope it is useful to you. He has recently updated the resources section so I thought I would make it available here. (With his permission, of course!)</p>
<p><a title="Ho Lover in zine format (A4 letter)" rel="attachment wp-att-165" href="http://smartassed.com/2011/04/zine-on-being-a-good-ally-to-sex-workers/ho-lover-zine-layout-a4-v2/" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/smartassed.com/2011/04/zine-on-being-a-good-ally-to-sex-workers/ho-lover-zine-layout-a4-v2/?referer=');">HO LOVER zine layout</a></p>
<p>I hope it is useful to you. Print it out and leave it laying around where ever you hear people making whorephobic comments.</p>
<p>xxx<br />
Lusty</p>
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		<title>Tits and Sass: One Big Service Piece</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 17:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some rad people have started a new sex worker blog, please go check it out! It&#8217;s called Tits and Sass! It&#8217;s funny! Smart! Touching! Political! All the good stuff. The lovely Bettie interviewed me via Skype for a post there, if you want to read more background on how our video Every Ho I Know [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some rad people have started a new sex worker blog, please go check it out! It&#8217;s called <a href="http://titsandsass.com/" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/titsandsass.com/?referer=');">Tits and Sass</a>! It&#8217;s funny! Smart! Touching! Political! All the good stuff. The lovely Bettie interviewed me via Skype for a post there, if you want to read more background on how our video Every Ho I Know got made.</p>
<p>xxx Lusty</p>
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		<title>DIY Resource on touring as a sex worker in Australia</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jan 2011 14:26:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I worked as a sex worker in different states in Australia for about a year. I managed to do it, and do it well, by the grace of a few lovely and talented sex workers who taught me the ropes. As a result, my philosophy on sharing information on working safely and successfully in providing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked as a sex worker in different states in Australia for about a year. I managed to do it, and do it well, by the grace of a few lovely and talented sex workers who taught me the ropes. As a result, my philosophy on sharing information on working safely and successfully in providing sex services is to share, for free, whatever information I have.</p>
<p>Sadly the reality is that sometimes I am inundated with requests and questions from people wanting to get into the business. I am flattered you asked me for my advice! But I will tell you that what you think is a simple question &#8211; is not. People contact me, I think, because they can see that I am a professional, community-minded, and that I love what I do. All these things are true. However! This means that I have a lot of information and knowledge and so when you ask me a question, I just can&#8217;t do you justice by giving you a simple answer. Selling sex services might look like a simple process &#8211; advertise, book, fuck &#8211; but it is skilled work that takes some thinking and planning. So please keep this in mind if you send me a request, and please  - write me back, tell me how it went, continue to share information, and at the very least &#8211; I love me a thank you.</p>
<p>Over the past year I have offered a very DIY workshop called Working It Down Under: Escorting in Australia a few times. I recommend a trip to Oz to anyone who wants a sunshine holiday and the opportunity to work in a decriminalized environment (in only some Australian states). Of course, there are some limitations, some of which are discussed on the handout below.</p>
<p>Legally things are changing over there, especially in Western Australia. Also sex workers are embroiled in constant fights with city councils to keep brothels firmly on the agenda during elections. Australian and migrant sex workers down under are very well organized to fight back against the moral crusade to keep laws on our bodies.</p>
<p>All this to say that my caveat is that some of the information on this handout I made back in July 2010 might be inaccurate or a bit misleading (since I couldn&#8217;t give the whole story), I hope it gives you all a taste of what to expect. I highly recommend going on over to <a href="http://www.scarletalliance.org.au/" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.scarletalliance.org.au/?referer=');">Scarlet Alliance</a> to get the whole 411 on what&#8217;s happening now, and of course, to make friends with some of the smartest, sluttiest and most empowered hookers I know.</p>
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		<title>Every Ho I Know Says So: A Resource for Lovers, Partners and Sweeties of Sex Workers</title>
		<link>http://smartassed.com/2010/12/every-ho-i-know-says-so-a-resource-for-lovers-partners-and-sweeties-of-sex-workers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 03:57:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi friends, I just wanted to share this link with you, it&#8217;s a video that my friend Jackson and I made over the past six months called Every Ho I Know Says So: A Resource for Lovers, Partners and Sweeties of Sex Workers Just in time for December 17, I just want to say a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends,</p>
<p>I just wanted to share this link with you, it&#8217;s a video that my friend Jackson and I made over the past six months called</p>
<p><strong>Every Ho I Know Says So: A Resource for Lovers, Partners and Sweeties of Sex Workers</strong></p>
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<p>Just in time for December 17, I just want to say a few words about why  we came to making this video. This year, we were both struggling with  lovers and friends who weren&#8217;t able to understand, support or celebrate  the work we were doing as sex workers. We saw that our loved ones were  trying their best, but there were really very few resources out there  for them. For me personally, a significant relationship in my life ended  in violence because of my partner&#8217;s whorephobia. We set out to interview sex workers on two continents, seeking their wisdom.<span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"></span></span></span></p>
<p>Every Ho I Know Says So is a response to the lack of resources for people looking for advice on how to be good to a sex worker. We want to support our lovers to fight stigma against sex workers, especially in intimate relationships. Sex workers themselves have valuable advice and direction to give our partners. With this video, we are saying &#8220;We support you in becoming a sex worker-positive and supportive lover and person in the community!!! By continuing to work on your attitudes about our work and educating yourself, you are showing us that you care. We love you!”</p>
<p>Please share it around and if you have any comments, contact me.</p>
<p>xxx<br />
Lusty<br />
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		<title>CALLOUT for SEX WORKER PARTICIPATION: Every Ho I Know Says So</title>
		<link>http://smartassed.com/2010/07/callout-for-sex-worker-participation-every-ho-i-know-says-so/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 21:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello sex workers, we are looking for your participation in a video project: EVERY HO I KNOW SAYS SO: A VIDEO FOR LOVERS AND PARTNERS OF SEX WORKERS What is this project? EVERY HO I KNOW SAYS SO is a video project documenting the advice that we sex workers want to give to our lovers, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello sex workers, we are looking for your participation in a video project:<br />
<strong>EVERY HO I KNOW SAYS SO: A VIDEO FOR LOVERS AND PARTNERS OF SEX WORKERS</strong></p>
<p><strong>What is this project?</strong><br />
EVERY HO I KNOW SAYS SO is a video project documenting the advice that  we sex workers want to give to our lovers, partners and dates on how to  be supportive to us. This video will be a resource for partners/lovers  of sex workers who struggle to understand and accept sex work.</p>
<p><strong>Who is making this video?</strong><br />
This video is being made by two sex workers, Jackson and Lusty Day.  Lusty Day is a white, middle-class genderqueer kinky independent escort  hailing from Toronto, where whorephobia was a major reason for her  breakup of a four-year relationship. Jackson is an australian, white,  class privileged queer trans boy who works it as a lady hooker and  dancer with a rainbow of experiences including dating fellow sex  workers, dating workers while not a worker, and also dating non-sex  workers. We are making this video with no budget, just our own labour.  And we will distribute it at no cost to the viewer.<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-123" title="i love my hooker" src="http://smartassed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/i-love-my-hooker.jpg" alt="i love my hooker" width="280" height="280" /></p>
<p><strong>How can I participate?</strong><br />
Contact us! We will do a super short interview with you where you speak  as if you were speaking to your lover from your own experience. An  example:</p>
<p>“I want you to understand that my work is sometimes sexually fulfilling  but that that doesn&#8217;t threaten our relationship, it&#8217;s just a positive  aspect of my work.”</p>
<p>We realize that many sex workers are not out about their work to lovers,  family, friends, immigration officials, police, etc because of  criminalization and reasons of personal safety. If you don&#8217;t want to be  identified, we can video you without showing your face (ie focus on your  hands) and also change your voice. We can also accept written  statements. We are open and willing to negotiate the best way for you to  participate. AND you can change your mind about being in the video at  any point. Talk to us!</p>
<p>While you might want to vent (and we&#8217;ve all got a crappy story of a  lover who just didn&#8217;t get it), this video is trying to build a gently  challenging space. Anger is powerful to express, but please also  remember our goal of creating a resource for partners and lovers that  helps them listen and grow.</p>
<p><strong>Why are we making this video?</strong><br />
EVERY HO I KNOW SAYS SO is a response to the lack of resources for  people looking for advice on how to be a good support person to a sex  worker. In turn, we want to support our lovers to fight stigma against  sex workers, especially in intimate relationships. Sex workers  themselves have valuable advice and direction to give our partners. With  this video, we are saying &#8220;We support you in becoming a sex  worker-positive and supportive lover and person in the community!!! By  continuing to work on your attitudes about our work and educating  yourself, you are showing us that you care. We love you!”</p>
<p>This video is a platform for sex workers to share their voices,  including at the forefront sex workers of colour, Aboriginal sex  workers, trans* sex workers, queer sex workers, disAbled sex workers,  sex workers of all ages, working class sex workers, and migrant sex  workers, too. As two relatively privileged sex workers, we are committed  to using strategies that centre the people most affected by whore  stigma and oppression.</p>
<p><strong>How will the video be distributed?</strong><br />
We intend to distribute the video on YouTube and we hope you will blog  and distribute it online for us, too. We hope to complete the video by  October 2010.</p>
<p><strong>Can I pass this callout to a friend who is a sex worker?</strong><br />
Yes, absolutely. Please share it as we are hoping to connect with many different sex workers.</p>
<p><span> To participate or to answer your questions, please email jacksonisforcutting@gmail.</span>com and lustyday@gmail.com.</p>
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		<title>New zine available! FANG IT: My Melbourne Sexcapade</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 21:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Freshly baked, my new queer sex zine Fang It: My Melbourne Sexcapade. Contact me at lustyday@gmail.com with your address if you want one. $2 to pay for the printing, blood, sweat and tears! The lovely Sarah Pinder has already published a review on her blog bits of string press. Here&#8217;s an excerpt from the story [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Freshly baked, my new queer sex zine Fang It: My Melbourne Sexcapade. Contact me at lustyday@gmail.com with your  address if you want one. $2 to pay for the printing, blood, sweat and  tears!</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-109" title="FANG IT medium size" src="http://smartassed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/FANG-IT-medium-size-600x450.jpg" alt="FANG IT medium size" width="600" height="450" /></p>
<p>The lovely Sarah Pinder has already published a review on her blog <a href="http://bitsofstring.wordpress.com/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/bitsofstring.wordpress.com/?referer=');">bits of string press</a>.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an excerpt from the story &#8220;Being The Best I Can Be&#8221; to entice you:</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;"><em>What are you training for?</em> a guy at this squat in Brunswick asks me. I fumble and bullshit some answer. If pressed again, maybe I&#8217;ll say I&#8217;m training for the revolution. That may be true. But mostly I&#8217;m training because I&#8217;m a submissive masochist and a hott butchy curly-haired meanie told me she already bought me a whistle. Let&#8217;s call her Coach. She knocked my shoulder gently at the spanking workshop last week as she left and said <em>you have my number</em>.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">So effortless. I&#8217;m hooked.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">Over text we make plans to meet at the track at the uni, 4pm Sunday. On the day of I keep wanting to chicken out, my stomach twisting, I&#8217;ve never played with her before nor have I ever done more than joke about having a fitness top. I have been building her up as a big meanie in my mind all week. I go over all possible excuses. None are solid. Hell. Shape up, pussy-ass. It&#8217;s time to represent. I pull on some little nylon running shorts and a pale blue cotton shirt with some sporty-looking numbers on the front. I jump on the Family Star, and pedal hard down Rathdowne, repeating to myself: I can take it. I can do it.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">By the time I reach the uni it&#8217;s raining. I half-hope we&#8217;ll call it off. I start a text and blam, she appears behind me out of nowhere. Damn, she is riding her bike too, and she&#8217;s got the best green old-skool track pants and a hoodie on, its strings swinging in the wind. All dressed up! <em>Some guy asked me when I left my house if I was a personal trainer,</em> she tells me. We laugh. I&#8217;m loving that we are dressed up for a scene wearing sportwear. I feel so nerdy-good in this bike helmet, too.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">We decide to do it indoors and I follow her up Lygon Street. We race the clouds, and I can&#8217;t hardly keep up to her because the back wheel on the Family Star is slipping on some rain. We settle into my friend&#8217;s empty bedroom, I tell her some of my likes and limits and she does the same. We&#8217;re all awkward until we discover this skipping rope hanging on the back of the door. <em>Start with that,</em> Coach says, sitting on the bed.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0cm;">I wind the rope around each of my wrists once and jump. Sweat pours off me after only a minute and my calves are already seizing up. This might be the shortest scene ever. After a bit she says I can stop and I get right down on the floor in front of her, putting my head on her lap, playing up my heaving breath to get xxx-tra attention. She falls for it, stroking my head. <em>What a good job you did,</em> she says. I beam. <em>Now push-ups&#8230;</em></p>
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		<title>Mourning a client and a dear friend Aaron</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 05:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear friends of the sweet and sexy Aaron, I wish I could be there with all of you today to celebrate the life and wildness of the best client a hooker could ever have: Aaron S, and of course, his constant companion, little Aaron. Together, they were VERY badly behaved &#8211; just the way I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear friends of the sweet and sexy Aaron,</p>
<p>I wish I could be there with all of you today to celebrate the life and wildness of the best client a hooker could ever have: Aaron S, and of course, his constant companion, little Aaron. Together, they were VERY badly behaved &#8211; just the way I liked it!</p>
<p>My name is Lusty Day and for the past two years I had the great privilege of sharing intimacy, friendship, and hot sex with Aaron. I was really nervous when we first met about learning about how to communicate with and please Aaron, but he was the most gentle, patient, appreciative and dirty-minded lover and client I could ask for. I first started working for him when I was still quite new to being a sex worker. At the time, I was really struggling with telling my friends, my family and my community about the work I was doing. Aaron taught me that there was nothing shameful or wrong about buying and selling sexual services. Plus, that guy was so persuasive he was paying me half the rate I charge other clients and we were having twice the fun! We had some great times together rocking his wheel chair around the living room. He taught me so very much about the power of eye contact and a great laugh &#8211; both instrumental to having great sex.</p>
<p>More than client and sex worker, Aaron and I also became great friends and allies. He always offered me a place to sleep if I was feeling down, and even though I suspected that he had an ulterior motive in asking me to sleep over, Aaron likewise cared deeply about me and all his friends and was always looking out for us. He was a fierce fighter for people&#8217;s freedom. Despite numerous difficulties that the ableist world threw at him, Aaron was always out attending and leading community events and rallies. His legacy will live on in the struggle for rights and respect for people with disabilities, for queer people, and for sex workers, to name but a few.</p>
<p>In honour of Aaron today, I&#8217;m wearing the purple lovely g-string panties he once gave me and telling everyone his most important advice: have sex! It meant so much to him and little Aaron that people felt pleasure and happiness. I am sad to miss the gathering but I&#8217;m sure that all the love and light you raise will shine for Aaron all the way over to Indonesia where I am sitting here loving him still.</p>
<p>Big love and whorelicious hugs to all of you,</p>
<p>Lusty Day</p>
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		<title>Whore Lover Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 23:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a continuation of Whore Lover Part I. Happy reading! In Oz, it wasn’t enough for us to work for someone else in the Sydney brothels. So we decide to head north to a tourist town on the Sunshine Coast, place ads in the local newspaper, and run our own gig from a secluded [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a continuation of <a href="http://smartassed.com/2009/11/whore-lover/#more-31" target="_self" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/smartassed.com/2009/11/whore-lover/_more-31?referer=');">Whore Lover Part I</a>. Happy reading!</p>
<p>In Oz, it wasn’t enough for us to work for someone else in the Sydney brothels. So we decide to head north to a tourist town on the Sunshine Coast, place ads in the local newspaper, and run our own gig from a secluded rental townhouse on the beach. The place is more luxurious than the tents, squats and couches we are used to. Here we have mirrored closet doors, our own washer and dryer. We have our own brothel. We can do it. Fuck brothels where management takes half our fee. We can reel clients in ourselves. It’s easy with a bit of hustle, a sweet talk on the phone.</p>
<p>Our ads are side-by-side in the community classifieds. Soon we realize that all the clients are calling us both, checking out rates and services. We try a scam. Between us, we rotate offering a cut rate $20 less than each other. The guy always books the cheaper rate. We are bleeding the same market. After a few bookings, I have an idea.</p>
<p>“Do you want to pool our earnings?” I ask Juliet. “We are splitting the ad, lodging and food costs. Why not collectivise the incoming?” We have long shared our spoils through common stories, laments and rage against the <span>whore</span>-phobic world.</p>
<p>She thinks about it for a millisecond, and agrees. “Why not?” We fish out a bigger envelope. It feels radical to share the proceeds, each acknowledging that we have common interests and skills and that we support each other’s work.</p>
<p>I think our mutual desire for cash wafted out on the ocean breeze because before long a fellow arrived. He is a crack dealer, ready to flash his cash, and didn&#8217;t even ask the rate. Juliet hustles the guy to pay us both, at the same time. It’s what is colloquially known as the “lesbian double.” Show time!<span id="more-67"></span></p>
<p>So we make $1400 to do what we do best – make a big porny show of moaning with a just a bit of effort on our part. I find myself between Juliet’s legs, with him behind me. I flick out my tongue and lick her bad porn style, my tongue outstretched not to please her but to make the whole performance something special for the guy our client. It works. He plunges into my pussy and cums pretty fast. As we all lay on the bed afterwards, I whisper in Juliet’s ear. “You know I don’t really lick pussy like that, right?” She laughs.</p>
<p>We hadn’t fucked each other for a long while, Juliet and I. We always had other lovers, interests, passions. Sex was just never the most interesting thing we had to learn about each other. That was funny to us both, since we both held a deep interest in sex and sexuality. But we had no shortage of intimacy, of course. “I adore you,” she always says, when she wakes beside me. To show my true colours, I prefer smothering her with kisses all over her face and tracing her lips with my fingers. We have escaped the plague of jealousy, I think because we have such a deep desire to see each other succeed, to grow, to be happy. Our desire is an investment in the ever-changing nature of intimacy, in the belief that it can’t be held tightly, nor measured or owned. Nor is it only sexual. Our intimacy has always been unruly, free and expansive. We witness each other. We accept each other, without shame for who we are or what we do. We adore each other just because we are.</p>
<p>Our working cunts just much prefer spending time together cuddling in the bed,laughing, pinching, kissing, talking…all things that don’t involve thrusting. Thrusting has become boring and commonplace. And I revel in the intimacy of knowing what does turn Juliet on. It’s not fucking. This is knowledge that no client has, or could possibly guess. I could tell you all about it – if you paid me.</p>
<p>We were a couple of queers playing straights playing bi-curious for cash. It was so thrilling to see the pile of bills on the bedside table, all for our performance. A hooker I once worked with told me that when clients ask her what turns her on, she says “money”. She gets great tips. And I see how it’s true. Our lesbian double show isn’t all faked…we are genuinely into performing and getting paid for a show well done.</p>
<p>Another night, she comes to me, cunt aching from her period. She had been working the night before, and her menstrual sponge is stuck inside. These little sponges stop blood from pouring onto a client, but they often get pounded deep beyond reach. She asks me to slip my hand inside her and remove it. This time, it lays tucked under her cervix, out of the awkward reach of her own hand. I don’t know how anyone gets them out alone, really.</p>
<p>We are camping on a beach and it is dark. We have no flashlight, no mattress, and no stove to make dinner. But we have heels, lingerie, and latex gloves.</p>
<p>I snap a glove on. We laugh at the sound, associating it more with sex than with doctor visits. “Are you ready?” I ask her. “Do you want some lube?” I know she is a bit nervous, because she is often stone. There is almost no occasion (ON) in which she would ask someone to slip their hand in. But if it was going to be anyone, it would probably be me. She trusts me. I can tell.</p>
<p>“Yeah, get some lube,” she agrees.</p>
<p>First we try in the campground bathroom. It’s ablaze with green fluorescent buzzing lights and resident moths. I insist Juliet sit on the toilet. She leans back. She stabilizes herself by bracing her arms against the stall walls. She blushes at the exposure, shushing me when ladies arrive for their nightly shower. But still we revel in filling the toilets with our slutty mania.</p>
<p>“Shit, wait, almost touching it, fuck, is that your cervix or the sponge?” I crane my wrist to a new angle. Juliet’s face swells with a held laugh, shaking her head. “I don’t know,” she squeaks out. She almost falls off the toilet, giggling. “This isn’t going to work, I can’t even feel it,” I say. We move to the tent, where she can lay flat on her back.</p>
<p>There, I reach inside her with my palm facing up, two fingers sliding in and then my thumb following. She tightens, but she is trusting. I’m surprised to now feel the sponge resting right there, not far from the mouth of her cunt. It’s a wet creature sitting on a golden seamway. Waiting for me. So easy for me to grab, so out of her reach. This pleases me, reminds me that we need each other so intimately. I pinch the pink treasure with the tips of my fingers and pull it out. It is dark veined with blood and it smells like earth. I snap the glove up from my wrist and stretch it around the still-warm creature. I tie a knot in the end and bat the stretchy filled glove against my knuckles like a toy. We screech and laugh. I am reminded of some old joke about wanting to be someone’s tampon. I would love to curl inside Juliet, and feel her open herself to clients, to her work, to feel her power. I suddenly wonder why there is no such a thing as peer-administered pap smears and STI tests. We could all reach up into each other’s cunts, keeping them going, keeping them working. It would breed familiarity and intimacy with the source of our cultural alienation. The familiarity would remind us again and again that there is nothing subterranean or dangerous about our busy cunts. What feels more mysterious is how Juliet and I have found each other, and figured out to use our cunts, market them in ways that deepen our love for each other. We are comrades in this mystery, practicing a revolution without a map. We support each other’s autonomy. We love without borders.</p>
<p>That night on the Sunshine Coast, as the stream of client calls slows, I ask Juliet if we can consummate our money-sharing approach with a bit of a ritual. She agrees. We collected palm fronds and all the cash we’d made. Holding hands, we step together into a small circle I’d fashioned from the palms. There is just enough room for us both to sit cross-legged inside it.</p>
<p>I take the money and lay the bills all in the same direction. Juliet then takes them from me, and starts counting out the money in hundred dollar piles, fanning them out around our thighs. The counting is the best part. On some mornings when I arrive home from the brothel around 8am, Juliet wakes up from our bed just to watch me count. I now have a sense of what is going on in the gangster and drug dealer films – our common relatives in the cash only economy. It feels powerful. We count the piles together, and screech when we reach the grand total.</p>
<p>Then we hold hands, close eyes.</p>
<p>“I invoke the whores of history, our foremothers and forefathers,” Juliet chants. “All the brave, smart hustlers.”<br />
“All the fat and young whores.” I add.<br />
“The bold. The beautiful.” Ha.<br />
“The tranny hos.”<br />
“The working girls of colour, the stories not passed on.”<br />
“The ones who will come after us.”</p>
<p>We sit in silence, savouring. Lightly touching fingers, knees bumping up against each other, surrounded by light.</p>
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		<title>Whore Lover Part I</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 17:31:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lusty</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a longer piece that appeared in the first issue of my zine Whorelicious. I wrote it for the upcoming book Whore Lover, which is still seeking submissions. I will post the call for submissions in a few days. The story is quite long so I&#8217;ve decided to serialize it&#8230;hope you like it! xxx [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a longer piece that appeared in the first issue of my zine Whorelicious. I wrote it for the upcoming book Whore Lover, which is still seeking submissions. I will post the call for submissions in a few days. The story is quite long so I&#8217;ve decided to serialize it&#8230;hope you like it!</p>
<p>xxx<br />
LustyDay</p>
<p><strong>Whore Lover</strong></p>
<p>Juliet and I are walking down Illawarra Road in Sydney, Australia. I am lagging slightly behind her. She is wearing her red striped dress and white flats. She is going out on a date after she drops me off at the brothel. I see a red thread trailing from the hem of her dress. I don’t stoop to grab it and fix it for her. The whole hem could unravel. And I don’t think she would really care about the thread anyways. Her clothes are always well-chosen, but not necessarily well-made.</p>
<p>We are walking towards <a href="http://www.amore.com.au/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.amore.com.au/?referer=');">Amore</a> after the sun has set, it’s 9pm and I’m about to start my career as a brothel whore. She knows the way because she has already worked there. She is taking me there because she wants me to know the way, too.</p>
<p>“So one more time, what should I say to the clients in the intro?” I ask her. I am nervous. I have hooked before, but never in a brothel. Competing with other women, especially straight women, is terrifyingly about to become reality. I don’t think of myself as competitive. Or straight.</p>
<p>“Just remind yourself that the only thing you want to do in the world is fuck them,” she repeats. “Touch them at any moment you can – on the leg, on the shoulder, whatever. Call them handsome.”</p>
<p>Juliet has already lent me her knockout pink baby doll negligee from the Sally Ann. She thought it would go well with my sky-high red patent leather heels. I wouldn’t really know. I don&#8217;t know much about femme fashion other than fresh-faced admiration. My style is more clean-faced boyish gurl-nerd with sensible walking shoes. We have gone over the intro scenario before, the moment when I emerge from the girls&#8217; room and lay my charm on the client for 30 seconds to convince him to book me. But I need reassurance, I need a wise whore to tell me I will be successful. (I haven’t learned yet that for every kind of ho, there is a client who will readily see her sex appeal.) I have barely arrived in Australia. But Juliet has already been working for nine months in brothels all over Sydney. She has encouraged me to come from Canada to have an adventure and pay off my school debts. After three grinding years in graduate school, I am ready for it.<span id="more-31"></span></p>
<p>But I’m still nervous. I can’t pace my steps right, I want to walk faster, but Juliet has stopped to examine a pile of abandoned clothes and things in the gutter. “Look!” she exclaims. “I love this shade!” She has found a half-used tube of Ruby Rose lipstick. Before tossing it into the blue milk crate strapped to her bike, she satisfactorily rolls the shiny tube closed. She tries on some shoes too. She is always picking things out of the gutter. Hardly someone you’d think was a pimp. But she is. Juliet is my pimp. Or, should I say, she got me in the biz. Isn’t that what a pimp is?<br />
We are almost at the brothel. I want to get there and start working already! But I also want Juliet to slow down. I want her to look at me, tell me all over again how I will be admired and paid well by men. I want her to admire me, adore me. I want her to be a million things to me – and she is. She takes me in the buzzing front door, introduces me to the receptionist, and checks in on me via text message all night. And I’m fine. She knew I would be. I knew I would be. But that’s not the point. The point is to feel my apprehension is acknowledged, that no matter if I have a lucrative night or a bad one, I am not judged on my whoring skills. Basically, that I am loved no matter what happens.</p>
<p>Way back when, Juliet introduced me to the outcall biz back in Toronto, Canada. It started one day when I was visiting her at her day job. She worked at a sex shop. As usual, I was rushing home from the university to have dinner, wondering all the time if the degree was worth the poverty it created.</p>
<p>Juliet was answering emails as I came in the door. She gestured for me to close the small office door behind me. “I need to tell you something,” she said quietly. Juliet almost never hushed her voice. “I started doing sex work.” Her glance burned with excitement.</p>
<p>“Humph.” I said in response. I wasn’t much shocked. I’d seen her host dildo races, organize feminist porn awards, and convince art crowds to sharpen their pencils with a toothy vagina.  In fact, when she said it, it felt strange that this conversation hadn’t already happened. “Are you enjoying it?” I asked.</p>
<p>“Damn straight,” she said. “And I think you could do it too. Why be poor?”</p>
<p>Why indeed? For Juliet, poverty had never been noble. She knew it well – it clawed at her, choking her in all she did growing up.</p>
<p>Juliet thought I’d be good at it. She said I had the right attitude towards sex: I practised sexual connection outside of love, I enjoyed sexual exploration, and was motivated to learn about others through their sexuality. Basically, she saw that I was an entrepreneurial slut capable of looking after myself.</p>
<p>So we made a plan to talk shop. In Queen’s Park a few days later, we scrounged for a clean park bench. There was no place to sit that wasn’t smothered by the sound of city workers’ chainsaws. I was grateful for the cover. Sex working is mostly criminal in Canada. I didn’t want anyone to overhear us.</p>
<p>Juliet gave me my legal education on two glossy sheets of reused paper from the sex shop. One side was plastered with images of Buck Angel’s transman pussy. I was sure no one had yet printed Sections 210–213 of the Criminal Code of Canada on the other side of such precious porno.</p>
<p>“So here’s a quick rundown,” she explained. “You can’t have a workplace, that’s violating the bawdy house law. You can’t work for anyone, or they get charged with procuring. Don’t employ anyone like a driver or a security person, or they get charged with living off the avails of prostitution. You can’t negotiate price in public, that’s against the communication law…” she began to rattle off.</p>
<p>“So you can’t do anything legally?” I interrupted. “Not really,” she answered. “But you can get smart about not getting caught.”</p>
<p>I looked around the park, feeling suddenly exposed, and liking it. Again, glad for the sound of fallen tree limbs getting fed into the wood shredder. This was survival knowledge. I felt honored to receive. And glad that Juliet had no shame about thriving and sharing the spoils.</p>
<p>At that time, we were friends, lovers, and allies. We were about to become hustlers, partners, and comrades.</p>
<p>Ask me how I got into the industry, and I’ll tell you: “Juliet made me do it!” Not only did she pimp me, she also trafficked me across international borders for her own nefarious purposes – ie she wanted a travel buddy, a confidante, a close friend from home to share in. Really, she could go to jail for this camaraderie. If we weren’t both white women, that is. Because the world only sees victims in sex work, and those victims are usually imagined to be Thai women workers, not ever women who choose this life, and are fulfilled by it. The truth is, most internationally traveling whores choose this work, no matter their race &#8211; the world just can&#8217;t imagine it that way.</p>
<p>“My only regret about sex work,” Juliet confesses to me one night, “is that I didn’t know how to start doing this ten years ago when I was 24.”</p>
<p>“Fuck that, I wish I&#8217;d known at 14!” I answer. For once I shock her. I already knew at 14 that I had something valuable to boys. But the exchange was never profitable enough for me. I always wanted more out of it. Now I see what I want, and how to get it, without shame.</p>
<p>“Yes, can you imagine? I could have sold my virginity for $1000!” she fantasizes.</p>
<p>“Are you kidding? That’s worth way more. Dream bigger,” I dare her. We are whores, we are whores who dare to want more. Greedy cunts!</p>
<p><em>To be continued&#8230;</em></p>
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